This is the quilt that my daughter Grayson used to sleep under:
I made it as a Christmas present for her when she was 7 and in 2nd grade. It was strictly a utility quilt — basic patchwork and quilted on my machine. At the time my daughter loved anything bright and colorful. I had so much fun collecting the fabrics for this quilt because they were totally different than the muted colors that I usually used. I couldn’t stop smiling while making this happy quilt and I’ve loved it ever since. It suited my daughter and her colorful personality to a “t.”
But my daughter just turned 14 (argh) and this year the only present she wanted was a redecorated bedroom. Needless to say, the patchwork quilt did not make the cut. I guess my vision of her marching off to college with her cherished childhood quilt in tow isn’t going to come to pass. And to make matters worse, she decided that she doesn’t want to sleep under a quilt anymore. She wants a duvet.
After the initial shock and feelings of betrayal subsided, I was able to pull myself together enough to help her shop for a duvet cover. This is what she chose:
It’s from IKEA and has some Swedish name that I can’t pronounce, but she loves it. The new bedding looks nice against her yellow walls (thank God, no painting!), but we took down the pink curtains and replaced them with white linen. We also took away the white headboard that I had stencilled with pink flowers when she was 2, painted the matching dresser blue, and dispensed with the pink table scarf that has covered her dresser for years. The final touch was replacing her wooden lamps and pleated shades with ultra-cool glass lamps and barrel shades.
Basically we eradicated any shred of my influence and/or taste from the room and made it utterly her own. She’s thrilled with the new space and that makes me happy, but I’m also a bit sad to say goodbye to the touches of little girl that I spent so much time creating.
BUT she still needed a table scarf for her dresser to protect it from her fish bowl AND she couldn’t find any that she liked in time for her birthday slumber party. I saw an opportunity and I decided to take it. Unbeknownst to my daughter I bought a 1/4 yard each of 8 solid blues that matched her duvet cover, cut them into 1 1/2″ strips, and sewed them together to make this table scarf:
Now everybody is happy. Grayson loves the table scarf and pillow because there’s nothing girlie or traditional about them. I may have made them, but they are totally her. And I’m happy because once again my daughter has inspired me to stretch my boundaries and try something new AND I managed to get a quilt (and a little piece of me) back into my daughter’s bedroom. Shhh…